Luckily for the MODERN, blended family they added the USUALLY! Although many families do reside in the same dwelling, others maintain more than one household with success!
Limiting screen time is no new topic for families. For our blended family, screen time can consume us! With iPods, iPhones, Kindles, Samsung tablets, and iPads we find ourselves with five kids that are totally consumed with games, texting and Instagram. Given we only spend weekends, holidays and vacations together, our time as a family is limited. We’ve decided to limit electronics on vacations to specific periods that coincide with some much needed “down-time”. Early mornings can be a difficult time for our blended family; two boys that wake up with the sunrise, stomp around, and try to wake the entire household versus two little night owls that prefer to sleep in after a late night of reading make striking a morning balance difficult. Limited screen time in the early morning allows for the early birds to watch lax videos or play games quietly while giving the sleepy heads an extra hour of rest. We’ve also decided to “collect” the electronics in a central, adult-controlled location so that the kids aren’t tempted by their electronics at every turn. This approach gives us controlled quiet time while still allowing for plenty of time for important family discussions and interactions!
I would love to hear how other blended families deal with screen time – give us your input today!
Relationships take effort and energy; your relationship with your spouse or significant other is not immune to this advice! When I hear new moms bemoaning the fact that it is more work to spend an evening out away from the baby (“it’s so much work – we have to get a babysitter, make the reservation, plan around the baby’s feeding schedule, find clothes that fit – other than the yoga pants!”), I always encourage them to take the time and effort to do it! I wish that someone had given me this advice and encouragement when I was a new mom. It’s almost as if you need someone to give you permission to put yourself and your relationship with your spouse on par with that of the needs of the new baby. And, this does not only apply to new families with young children – it is important that you find a way to follow this advice even when the children are older.
In a blended family, we’ve found this to be a critical part of our relationship. Given we have a limited amount of time with our children (joint custody) and a limited amount of time with one another (separate states) our time management is critical! Here are some suggestions for ways to balance your time with children and still find time for each other:
Whatever your blended family set-up, find time as a couple to focus on your needs – this is not a selfish choice – it is important for a healthy, happy blended family!
This weekend, Lucky Seven Family ran in a 5k to support a local Reading Girl Scout Troop. The troop was raising money to buy Girls’ Field Hockey Goals for one of the local schools. We got to support a great community cause and it was a great way to get our workout for the day! Alida won the <16 year old female category!!
As a modern, blended family with 5 kids (yes, 5 kids!) that are between the ages of 8 and 14 years, we sometimes struggle to find activities that everyone will enjoy. When we sit down after a day filled with activity (see last week’s tip on Hiking!), it is nice to relax and enjoy a movie. But, what to watch?!? With 3 pre-teen/teens and 2 younger ones it can be difficult to agree on one appropriate movie.
So, for this week’s tip, we’ve put together a list of favorite Sports movies to enjoy with your family! GOOOAAAALLLLL!
Hoosiers (small town basketball in Indiana)
Chariots of Fire (Olympics, running)
Field of Dreams (baseball: ”If you build it, they will come”)
Bad News Bears (the original one from the ’70s, baseball)
The Mighty Ducks (hockey)
Seabiscuit (horse racing)
Soul Surfer (teenage girl surfer fights back after losing her arm in shark attack)
Remember the Titans (football, inter-racial issues)
Rudy (football, overcoming odds)
Cool Running (Jamaican bobsled team)
Share your favorite sports movie with Lucky Seven Family!!